**“The Other Side of the Game”: Luka Dončić Reflects on Finding Love with Anamaria Goltes**
When I first met **Anamaria**, I’ll be honest — I didn’t think too much of it.
She wasn’t what I expected, not at all.
At that time in my life, everything revolved around **basketball**. NBA dreams were taking shape, and I was consumed by the Game — capital G. The grind, the hype, the next move, the next country, the next opponent. Romance? It wasn’t on my radar.
But **Anamaria Goltes** — she walked into my life like a different kind of melody.
Not loud.
Not flamboyant.
Just… real.
I was used to chaos. The road. The pressure. The high of the win and the silence of the loss. Anamaria was **steady**. Firm. Thoughtful. Sincere.
At first, I didn’t know what to do with that.
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### Act I: From Ljubljana to Love
We were both just kids when we first crossed paths in **Ljubljana**, Slovenia. I was barely a teenager. She was, too. I remember it wasn’t dramatic — no fairy-tale fireworks. Just two people who bumped into each other at the right time, who would come to mean more to one another than we ever could’ve imagined.
She had this calm about her. A quiet strength.
Where I was racing, she was reflecting.
Where I was chasing, she was grounding.
Even then, in those early moments, she saw me in a way others didn’t. Not as a basketball prodigy. Not as a “future NBA guy.” Just as **Luka**. The boy from Brezovica. The goofball who loved his dog. The kid who sometimes got nervous before big games but would never admit it out loud.
> “You’re not invincible,” she told me once.
> “But that’s what makes you beautiful.”
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### Act II: Distance & the Game
Being young in love is one thing.
Being young in love **while building a career across continents** is something else entirely.
When I joined **Real Madrid**, everything changed. Spain was electric. My career was exploding faster than I could process. MVPs, EuroLeague glory, headlines in every paper. And still — Anamaria stayed.
She didn’t chase cameras.
She didn’t look for the spotlight.
She waited — and **believed** in something more.
But it wasn’t always easy.
There were moments when the distance between us felt longer than just flights and time zones. There were injuries. Exhaustion. Doubts. And that pressure — that endless pressure — to perform, to deliver, to always be *on*.
And still, she stayed.
> “I’m not here for Luka the player,” she reminded me.
> “I’m here for Luka the person.”
That hit different.
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### Act III: America, the Leap, and the Storm
The night I got drafted by the **Dallas Mavericks**, I felt the whole world spinning. It was everything I dreamed of — and still, I didn’t feel complete.
It was Anamaria I looked for backstage, after the lights, after the photos. It was her voice I wanted to hear in the chaos. Her presence. Her calm.
When we moved to the U.S., it was a new world for both of us. New city, new expectations, new language, new pressure. People often forget — this wasn’t just a leap for me. It was a leap for **her** too.
While I was learning plays and teammates, she was learning to build a home from scratch. While I was on highlight reels, she was organizing furniture, navigating real estate, and building a space that **felt like peace**.
And trust me, when the arena goes silent and the house is empty — that peace means more than points.
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### Act IV: The Pressure & the Quiet Moments
You know the part that doesn’t make headlines?
The **quiet nights**.
The long flights.
The mornings when you wake up sore and anxious, wondering if you’re enough.
Those are the moments Anamaria has carried me through.
Like the time I twisted my ankle and felt useless for weeks. She didn’t just bring me ice and check on rehab. She **held space** for my frustration. She let me cry without needing to fix it.
Or the game where I missed a last-second shot and felt the weight of the world crashing on me. I walked into our house, head down, heart low.
She didn’t say, “You’ll get the next one.”
She said, “You’re allowed to be human.”
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### Act V: More Than a Girlfriend
People like to call her “Luka’s girlfriend.” And yeah — that’s true.
But if you think that’s all she is? You’re missing the point.
She’s a **partner**. An artist. A woman who built her own path while never asking to stand in my shadow. She’s supported me not because she had to — but because that’s who she is.
She taught me patience.
She taught me balance.
She reminded me that even when the cameras are off, my story matters.
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### Act VI: We, Not Just Me
If I’ve become a better player over the years — it’s partly because I became a better person. And I credit a lot of that to **us**.
Because when you have someone who believes in you **without conditions**, it changes the way you carry yourself. You stop performing. You start **being**.
She’s been with me through MVP runs and losses that broke me. She’s seen every version of Luka — and she’s never once flinched.
Our relationship hasn’t been perfect. But it’s been **real**. And that means more than any perfect scorecard.
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### Act VII: Looking Ahead
There’s something special about sharing your journey with someone who was there before the lights. Before the money. Before the fame.
With Anamaria, I never have to explain myself. I never have to perform. I just **am**.
I don’t know what the future holds. Championships? Fatherhood? Europe again someday? Maybe.
But I know this: **wherever I go — she’s part of the story.**
Because love isn’t found in roses and grand gestures. It’s found in:
* Packing suitcases at 2 a.m.
* Staying up after a loss.
* Whispering “I’m proud of you” when no one’s watching.
* Laughing in bed after a bad game.
* Holding hands on a quiet Tuesday, no cameras, no fans — just us.
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### Final Thoughts: The Real Win
People talk about “winning” like it’s only about rings.
Don’t get me wrong — I want that ring. I work every day for it.
But the **real win**? It’s knowing that after the confetti falls, after the fans go home, and the lights shut off… I’ve got **her**.
Anamaria is the part of my life that no highlight reel can capture.
She’s not loud. Not flashy.
But she’s **everything**.
And that’s the version of my story I never want to forget.
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